Ready to referee?
Fair-fight rules in play
- No sarcasm or mockery
- No contempt or name-calling
- Attack behavior, not character
- No "always" / "never" absolutes
- No defensiveness or counter-attack
- No stonewalling or shutting down
- No blame-shifting
- No dragging up past grievances
- No mind-reading — don't tell them what they think, feel, or why they did something
- No comparisons to others
- No lecturing or unsolicited explaining
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